Why can’t you change? What is keeping you the same? Updated…

In spite of The sight, and other capacities newly available to you, You don't seem to be able to change...

You have been unsuccessful getting their guidance, getting your information from outside of the mind.

This manifests, among others, in your inability to muscle test correctly.

The question is why?

The phenomenon, what actually seems to happen is this: you understand where to look, how to look, and you nod rapidly. You bring great examples to show how you just succeeded in using the new capacity... but I can smell the mischief... you are trying to throw me off my tracking.

Now, I say "you" but who is this "you"? What aspect of a person am I talking about?

In this case, the dominant aspect, the ego your delusional self, who you fancy yourself to be, your "precious I" you defend at all cost.
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Still think memes are innocent?

I have been talking about the memes... and it seems that I haven't spoken clearly the point.

So let me take a stab at it, and I'll try until it's so clear that most people will get it.

A meme is a though form. Words. Some rule, some principle, some saying that says something about how the world works, how you should be, and what is good and bad.

The Tree of Knowledge houses the memes. They live their incestuous life there and they come from there to infect you. Continue reading "Still think memes are innocent?"

How do you think of yourself less? What does that mean? Thinking of others? Becoming a do-gooder?

OK, I am going to clarify something that myself don't quite know how it works, and why it works that way.

So it may come out incomprehensible, botched up, and useless. But, in my view, it is worth to try...

Note: if you only read one example, make it #5!

OK, the issue: one of the measurements is to what degree your life is about you and your life... the words I use I borrowed from someone else... 1 and the words are "to what degree you think of yourself"... as a measure of humility i.e. how much room you have to learn and grow, how much room you have for the world, for work, for life... for others. Continue reading "How do you think of yourself less? What does that mean? Thinking of others? Becoming a do-gooder?"

Why I need to be some kind of criminal to really help you

Yesterday I listened to step 4 of the 67 steps. I heard something... and turned the audio off. I didn't want to forget what I heard.

This is the step where Tai talks about the DNA that makes us able to learn, no, makes us have to learn to become human.

He uses language as an example.

Every human has the capacity to learn their mother tongue so they can communicate with the people around them. But there is no separate gene for English and Serbian, for example. There is the capacity to learn language.

And so is with hundreds of abilities. Continue reading "Why I need to be some kind of criminal to really help you"

Your physiology and psychology work hand in hand… And how can meditation work for you… finally

co-creationIn some regards I am still a Twitchy Little Bastard... even though outwardly my behavior has calmed down a lot.

What am I talking about?

A Twitchy Little Bastard is someone who acts without regard to the future, without considering if the action is sustainable or not. 1

I am looking at this phenomenon from a different vantage point: your quick to react, your high-sprung state.

I am looking to prove to you that your physiology and your psychology, your body and your mind are intimately connected.

That you calm down one and the other calms down too. Continue reading "Your physiology and psychology work hand in hand… And how can meditation work for you… finally"

The purpose of all learning is to allow the learning to change who you are

This is not a funny article... And actually I struggled mightily writing it... because it talks about something I have never been able to teach... Your beingness.

I am reading a book for the third time in a month. I will read it again and again until I become who I want to become.

Some people read the words in a book. I read the spirit. I align my whole inside with it... if it is worth it.

And if it is worth it: it won't happen at the first reading, the second reading, and probably the reading either. So I read it until it happens.

The two reasons to read are:

  • 1. to allow the material to change you, to change who you are...
  • 2. all the other reasons people read for...

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Field of relationship? What the heck is that and why should you care?

father-child fieldThe only field of relationship, the only field of communication that leads you to growth, that leads you to raise your vibration is what I reveal in this article.

I have a student whose biggest contribution to me is asking questions, the kind of questions that make me stop and look to give an answer.

As the father in our father-child, teacher-student relationship, I am immensely grateful... eyes fogged over grateful.

Because he is so faithfully in that field of relationship, everything he says is truthful. No intent to deceive. Also no desire to be accepted: he knows he is already accepted.

Father-child relationship is NOT your human standard. You didn't have it with your father. You didn't have it, most likely, with a teacher.

Father-child is the home of Unconditional Love. Continue reading "Field of relationship? What the heck is that and why should you care?"

Smart people don’t have to look… Creativity is genetic… and other bullcrap from the Tree of Knowledge

I have started to put my old videos on my video site

I also listened to one... how you lose your creativity, how to get it back...

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Can you conquer your laziness, your lack of action, your slacker nature… Your sissy nature?

In this article we'll go deep into what's going on, inside you, that fails you... We'll look at different schools of thought to do that. Understanding the inner dynamic is the first step towards success.

That, and knowing that every number in your Starting Point Measurements can be changed... Nothing is fixed. Not even your DNA.

If you look at yourself and your behavior, and then compare it with what you say, what you've said, there is rarely any similarity between the person who spoke and the person who acts.

It's quite confusing.

If the mindpower people were correct, if their model were accurate, your actions would come from your thoughts.

But they don't... Continue reading "Can you conquer your laziness, your lack of action, your slacker nature… Your sissy nature?"

Why I am not interested in healing, but very interested in getting you well?

Healing should mean "getting you well", and on the 13th floor of your being: it is.

But humanity lives on the 14th and the 15th floor... the Tree of Knowledge, and there healing means something entirely different. It means that someone who is a "healer" does woowoo and then whatever was bothering you goes away.

Not going to happen. But people are seeking healing, want to be healers, so I am changing the words... and of course a ton of people who this way can keep on dreaming.

I changed my site's heading from healing to "getting you well" and the quality of the people changed DRAMATICALLY! Who would have thought? I was guided to change... but I surely didn't expect that I was going to rid myself of the wannabe's and the secondhanders.

The words sound similar, but the meaning, the emotional meaning in today's "culture" is vastly different.

The only thing that can heal your body is your body itself.
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