Your soul, your spirit, knows right from wrong
If it only had an opportunity to talk to you, to be heard, you’d probably consider stopping doing the wrongs that you do, if only to have peace inside, to have less tension, to have more joy.
The two selves we all have are twins separated at birth… one grows according to
DNA, the other according to outside influences… nature vs. nurture.
The further “nurture” makes the one twin (self) go, the worse the relationship becomes, the more, whenever they get to see each other, the one hates the other. Which one is doing the hating, you ask?
Continue reading “Do you spend time with yourself? Or are you trying to be busy all the time? What does that say about you?” We all have at least two distinct and recognizable selves that we switch back and forth between.
In this article we’ll look at intelligence, but we could also look at the character, the
attitude, the moral fortitude of the selves… but because I look at the world through the frame of smart and stupid, and only secondarily through loyal/disloyal, I’ll write this article on the intelligence level of your two selves. Why am I such a Nazi when it comes to who I am willing to work with?
Remember the soup Nazi? Who ran his soup takeout shop like a prison camp? And people lined up and waited patiently to be given soup… that was so good, and so hard to come by, they were willing to earn it… I want to be like the soup Nazi.
Like everyone, my energy is finite. I can’t whip out extra at the drop of a hat… I am human.
Continue reading “I want to be like the Soup Nazi” People throw around the words: , but what is the self? I have never found a person who knows what it means… and if it means what THEY mean. self-expression
Most people look
how you express yourself not what it is you express…
Meaning: I am letting my hair down… I am loud and obnoxious, I am funny, I am demanding… these are all
This article is about “
what” not “how”… What is the Self you express with everything… your life, your job, your relationships, with your music, poetry, and your life.
There are two selves, and the reason life doesn’t work for most of us is because the two selves are not connected in any way.
Self 1: your genes, your desire to survive and procreate. Self 2: your human desire to be higher than just your genes… to live your higher self. Self in the expression of the higher self, is the evolved self. The self Shakespeare means: To thine own self be true. Continue reading “Self-expression: what is the Self you are expressing? Updated”
One of my students said to me: “
you are like a scientist. And yet so much of your work lies in the realm of the not easily measured.“
I have always had a difficulty answering the question: What do you do?
Defining what you do is important. To whom? To you: if you want support. Unless THEY know what you do, they don’t know if they are aligned with what you do or not…
It is a need and a must to “meet the expectation of others”. It is a survival need. You can’t skip it.
Depending on what stage of personal evolution you are, it may be a lot more important to you than meeting your own expectation.
Continue reading “No man is an island. You need others if you want to succeed… How to get people on your team” If you found out that all the wrong turns, mistakes you made in your life… probably thousands, you made them because you didn’t see what there was to see.
A number of years ago, one leader in Landmark Education said: Most people either don’t sign up or quit as soon as they see it.
See what? You ask…
See that the solution to the issues of their lives, the decisions that would have taken them to success were there, but they didn’t see them.
I didn’t see them, and you didn’t see them.
Continue reading “The real reason why you are not happy, not fulfilled, not peaceful… and how to turn it around, maybe” There is a fundamental built-in error in tests that involve answering questions about ourselves.
I have found that personality tests that rely on your knowing yourself and to predict what you would do in certain situations, are profoundly flawed.
I say this after working with thousands of people, one-on-one, observing them, feeling them (I am an
empath) and comparing who and how they are compared to what they say about themselves.
The gap is significant between the two.
Continue reading “What is your self-image? Are self-image questions, personality profiles, Kolbe test give you a correct answer?”