Reframing: Are you happy?

I am always looking for guidance from whatever is giving guidance.

I am also looking for confirmation. My mind is a meaning making machine, like yours, and I catch myself looking for meaning in everything.

I am like a GPS… in order for the GPS give you accurate actions, it needs to know where you are at.

I am looking for the GPS function, the locating function part of the guidance. I am an experimenter, and I am aware, what can be easier, right? Continue reading “Reframing: Are you happy?”

How to avoid getting hooked…

It was about 10 years ago. I was getting somewhat better by drinking energized water. Not well, mind you, better. My skin was clearing up, and I had less occurrences of narcolepsy, where I would fall asleep in the middle of speaking, or driving.

I was way up in Colorado. It was a seminar by Marshall Thurber. I was already muscle testing my food… and most everything they had there tested “no” for me.

One of the “celebrity guests” at the seminar was Bill Harris. He is an excellent marketer, the marketer of Holosync. I was a diligent Holosync user… so I was excited seeing him there.

On the last day he and I started to talk (I think I was stalking him) and it came to the topic of water… I started to share about energized water.

He got really upset, and self-righteous, saying that it was bullshit, water is water is water.

I never used Holosync again. I use Bill’s emails to see what I should avoid. Like Mary Morrissey, whose program he is pushing today.

So this article is going to be about the invisible… and inside that invisible, a little bit about Mary Morrissey. Continue reading “How to avoid getting hooked…”

Updated: How to turn an oceanliner around in a tight bay… or how should you go from where you are to where you want to be, emotionally and all ways

how do you turn around a big ship in a harbor? trimtabbing to the rescueUPDATE: I wrote this article in 2007… when I did a lot of business training, business coaching… So please consider that some of what I say in this article is outdated in that regard.

I ended my core group training, and as it seems I now have some energy to coach.

Instantly three “associates” called, on the same day, and I accepted all three for some friendly coaching: just for the fun of it.

Who or what kind of people are people I like to coach:

  1. They need to have a business already. That shows courage and direction. That shows that they are above 95% of humanity, maybe even more. They are up to something and therefore the coaching can have a direction.
  2. They need to need the coaching, and they need to know it. They need to request it and make a commitment to take the steps I recommend. Rare indeed.

One of these people probably won’t have a big enough commitment and will be “fired” by me.

Another one of these people is probably going to want to quit when the going gets tough or make me do his work… I’ll probably fire him.

The third guy will succeed, beyond his wildest dreams.

How do I know it? Because when I shared with him the article I wrote some three years ago on the method of turning a big ship around in a tight bay, he cried. I mean wept…

Then he found the video below: and sent it to me. He was “touched, moved and inspired.”

He will take actions, even though it is his son’s birthday and Easter all at the same time. Even though he has a wife with “good ideas” to keep him busy and off-track… 🙁

Continue reading “Updated: How to turn an oceanliner around in a tight bay… or how should you go from where you are to where you want to be, emotionally and all ways”