Heaven or hell… same place, same people… the difference is your conversation

The opposite of Life is a conversation is you living in a world of object, being an object. An object. Ugh. I don't want to be an object. But if you look, you ARE treated as an object, by nearly everyone nearly all the time.

People don't look at YOU, they look at your body, your clothes, your hair... but not YOU.

I participated in a week long training some years ago, and the slogan of the training was "I see you". And I remember people getting teared up from hearing that.

That is the human condition: people tearing up when they are seen as a person, as an individual... as opposed to the norm: seen as an object to use, to abuse, to blame, to push around. Continue reading "Heaven or hell… same place, same people… the difference is your conversation"

Knowledge is not enough…

  • Unless it's accurate knowledge... i.e. true, tested, from an accurate source.
  • Unless you know what you learned... unless you know what you know... you didn't learn anything.
  • And unless what you leaned changes your behavior, inside or outside, nothing will change.
All learning is behavior modification, modifying behavior to become more fit to life, to play the game of life better, for yourself and for the human race. 1

So how do you modify behavior?

The process starts with an insight. The more energy is in the insight, the more energy you can or are willing to bring to the insight, the easier it will be to make the modification. Continue reading "Knowledge is not enough…"