You can’t fix being human

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You can’t fix being human

..that is one of the disappointing things you learn when you do work with me. I won't feed you baloney like "you are a spiritual being having a human experience..." and other garden variety horse manure.

The other half-sentence is just as disappointing: "you can't get out of this life alive..."

These two half-sentences address 70% of the popular delusions of humanity.

When you internalize these truly, when you start to be energized by them then your vibration will jump 50 points or more. Continue reading "You can’t fix being human"

Your deserving factor, your earning factor… How much do you deserve? How much have you earned? Are you worth a damn?

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I am listening to step 1 of the 67 steps again. The seventh time? Eighth time? I have lost track.

And as is usual for me, I am seeing something that Tai is not saying, and I kind of have been seeing, but not really. In the corner of my eyes.

My advanced students are now focusing in on soul correction.

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What is soul correction and why would the "divine" part of you need correction?

Let me explain:

The Universe has three energetic components: the positive, the negative, and the neutral.

This repeats itself on every level, the micro and the macro...

On the macro level the positive, giving component is The Force. The negative, receiving component are the souls, and the neutral/restrictive component is the individual's consciousness.
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Updated: Your soul correction and commitment: What is the connection?

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As I have said before, soul correction is a set of character defects, specific to your soul correction, that you need to overcome in a lifetime.

Track record through written history shows, that unless someone has guidance, expert guidance, they will not overcome the character defects: it is as if the character defect protects itself.
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Why don’t the low carb diets, low carb power bar, low carb shakes get you off carbs?

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Read Part 1, Part 2 before you read this article...

One of the problems with the low carb diets is that they don't address the real issue.

The real issue is that you have sold your soul to the "devil," you have become a slave to a pattern of tastes that is not natural, that was created artificially by the Powers that Be.

If you watched me eat, you would see that I don't crave sweets. I have no sweet tasting food in my diet.

I have tested Atkins some 30 years ago, and my favorite his cheese cake. But returning to eating that is suitable for an intelligent person isn't a faking your taste buds thing. Continue reading "Why don’t the low carb diets, low carb power bar, low carb shakes get you off carbs?"

Self-awareness… How to shift your state of being, how toughen up?

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What is the easiest method to shift someone's state of being?

We already know. Children, when they cry because they hurt themselves, can be brought out of crying by directing their attention to something more interesting, more engaging.

We use it in the Soaring Method.

I use it in almost every coaching conversation I have with people who are stuck in some unproductive state of being, like sadness, despair, maybe even resistance.

State of being, mode of being, beingness... all are outside of what you call self-awareness...

Self-awareness on the level of human is all physical and emotional.

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What’s your story? Your Troubles Are Repeating Themselves.

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The Outcome Is Not Pretty. You Are Trying. You Fail. What's Going On?

Your Troubles Are Repeating Themselves. your life is scripted. different locales, different characters, but it is the same repeating story. You Are Living Out A Script... The Outcome Is Not Pretty. You Are Trying. You Fail. What's Going On?

I would dare to say, that repeating a script that only brings you trouble, pain, guilt, shame is the opposite of emotional intelligence.

  • The first "modality" for "emotional intelligence" I encountered was beating. By my mother, occasionally by my father.
  • The second modality I encountered was psychotherapy, by a psychiatrist, who, after two years of therapy, decided that sleeping with me is more fun. I was 16 at the time.

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The Carrot and Stick Method, or what’s between you and doing what you need to do, want to do, dream of doing?

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This is an article from 2013... as valid as it was then...

The signup to the Carrot and Stick webinars has started. This has prompted me to write this article.

Most of us, thinking that we are machines that can be operated by anyone, think that just by finding the switch, we'll be able to do the things we haven't been able to do, haven't been willing to do, haven't been liking to do.
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Why you are not confident… Why you don’t trust yourself… Why you aren’t happy…

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I watch, I observe people's behavior and the emotions that go with it.

Unless I can see what you did, your emotions and much of your behavior don't make sense.

And occasionally I get the opportunity to see both the actions and the emotions...

  1. The most frequent behavior is you acting without looking.

Promising without looking. Saying/answering a question without looking.

What's the emotion? Anxiety... afraid of the future... Rightfully

Much like a drunk jumps into an empty pool... expecting it to be full.

You buy something. You are on the payment page. You assume you know what's there... you are not looking. You don't even suspect that you are signing up to a monthly program as well... and that you need to "un-tick" the box if you don't want it.
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Greed: Impatience, Hurry, Wanting, Forcing, Craving, Pursuing, Fighting For. Even What You Call “Loving” Is Greed.

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Greed: Impatience, Hurry, Wanting, Forcing, Craving, Pursuing, Fighting For. Even What You Call "Loving" Is Greed. Sorry to burst your bubble...

And all resistance in the chest, in the pit of the stomach and in the shoulders... whatever the reasoning.

What is the opposite of greed?

I mean, if you knew that anything with any element of greed in it works to your detriment: it makes you miserable, and it repels what you are greedy for... You would get curious what is the opposite of greed, wouldn't you?

Talk about double punishment!

Empathically (feeling your feelings) looking: greed is a tightening. The shoulders try to get closer to each other and want to meet in the middle. Why? I am the reporter, not the theorist, sorry.

Your upper body is like a bow and arrow: designed for attacking, set for killing. All energies are outward directed, propelled away from the inside. The inside is ignored, de-valued, dis-respected, emptied. All that is valuable seems to be on the outside of oneself. The desire is to fill the empty space, the de-valued self... is misdirected.
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