Often things you want look and feel and maybe ARE impossible

the optimistI wrote this article about the seemingly impossible and seemingly impossible dreams. I am republishing it because it is a teaching, I can see, is needed.

Often things you want look impossible.

How do I know it? Because, for me, it is an daily experience.

Building new habits… Learning to do things differently, learning to do different things. They all look impossible until they become old shoe easy.

I start projects, deal with people, use different methods, energies, software, etc. All require different skill-sets, most of it is impossible… or so it looks.

Some remain impossible, some becomes a habit.

I listened to these people talking the other day, and I remembered that back in 2003 I created a habit that kept me slim for more than 10 years.

A new habit has no chance to become a habit unless you do something to make it so.

I decided that I can’t drink my tea in the morning until I do my exercise. And for years I didn’t. And then, one day I forgot, and it went downhill from there.

Certain habits never actually become habits. Like now… I have ballooned, and have all the negative consequences of that: I won’t detail them to you, but you wouldn’t want them.

So I decided to do what I did 19 years ago: make my tea, but not be allowed to drink it until after I do my exercise…

Today I am on day 2 of that. I see that it’s difficult to remember… and it is normal. So the challenge to me is remembering.

I believed that if I can see myself doing it, then I can learn to do it. Not just the end result but actually doing it…

But it is not that easy. You need to REMEMBER doing it… And you need to do it when you don’t feel like doing it. When you don’t have time. When it’s cold. And when you woke up late…

So establishing anything new is hard. It is not linear: you may beat your head against the wall for a long time, before you see the light.

Most of the things I need in my life are like that. Banging my head against the wall hard.

And, of course, I like to go for impossible projects, like transforming humanity, and such.

I know it’s impossible. I know it’s not up to me. Darn, I know and yet… I want to give my life to something that is bigger than my life. After all your life is only as big as your projects are.

Let me repeat that:

Your life is only as big as your projects are.

Most people I know settle for less… maybe because they don’t know that regardless whether you win or lose, the size of your life is the size of your projects.

And even more people don’t know that if and when their life is about themselves and about their life, then their life is not satisfying. Joyless.

Why? Let me explain:

Let me start with stating that I am not religious. I don’t believe anything. And yet, some people come up with a MODEL that in spite of its religious origin, makes sense.

The people are the Kabbalists, and the MODEL is the Kabbalistic way to see creation, and the Big Bang. (Pitsuts.)

In the beginning of all was nothing. And it was everything. And it was an energy, endless. (Ein Sof.)

And the energy found that it wanted to give itself to something, but there was nothing else.

It was lonely and BORING.

One day the Energy decided to shape itself into a vessel, separate it from itself and use it to pour itself into.

It was a game. I give myself to you.

The vessel was created to be a receiver, a receptacle. And it went well for a long time, the Energy gave, the Vessel received, and it was all good.

But one day the vessel revolted. Turns out that the nature of the Energy carried over, somewhat, to the Vessel, and it got INFECTED with the desire to give.

The Vessel said: no more. I won’t receive more until I have something or someone to give too… I have bread of shame!

The Energy obliged. It withdrew itself to a tiny dot. But nature abhors vacuum and in the vacuum this withdrawal created, a whole physical universe arose…

This is what physicists call the Big Bang, the Ptsatsa…

The Vessel broke up to myriad of tiny chards… These chards became the souls of humanity.

Each chard has a dual nature… receiving and giving… Some more some less.

You experience this duality in yourself… as the black wolf and the white wolf… the one you feed will become stronger.

I attract the receivers… because I am a 99% giver.

Now, one of the soul wants you to be a giver is through projects. Projects that give…

Without projects, without challenge, the soul is just languishing, half dead- half vegetable.

Women, when their children are old enough to live on their own, when their parents die, go through a terrible period of depression. Depression means that you don’t have anything and anyone to live for, that you don’t have a project, you don’t have a future to look forward to.

But often, before you could take on a project big enough to match your life, you need to reclaim your confidence, you need to reclaim that in fact you have value, that you are worthy, and that you can.

Men go through a similar phase after divorce, or after retirement, whether they chose to retire or were forced into retirement.

Ultimately life is becoming smaller, unless… Unless you enlarge it by creating a new project to give it size.

We call these times transitional times, and they are very challenging.

Many of my students find themselves attracted to my work during their challenging, transitional times.

For years the most efficient curriculum seems to be: to restore these people by the Unconditional Love Activator, stabilize them with the Heaven on Earth, and reveal and resolve their fundamental concern so they can get themselves unhooked.

When you followed this ‘regimen’ you’ll found yourself attracted to challenges. That is when you know that nothing is as impossible as it looks. That by shifting your eyes, by shifting the context, things change dramatically, in front of your very eyes. Causing this for yourself is the most important skill to have. Causing.

Without challenges, challenges that you take on, voluntarily, joyously, because you want to live a bigger life. Without these self-chosen challenges none of what I teach is useful, or even needed. None of my energies will be of much use, none of my energies will make your life joyful and meaningful.

Only your actions can make it so.

This is why 90% of what I offer is for people that just want to feel better about themselves, want to feel better.

The foundational program is perfect for most people, it has what you need to get to a vibrational level of 200: that is a very comfortable level, no obligation to move further up, very nice.

The few of you who choose to pursue a bigger life: you’ll need to get good at CAUSING. Creating contexts, contexts like being a winner, so you can sail through life without major upsets.

If you belong to this minority who have a desire for a life worth living, I recommend that you watch the review of the context webinar.

In this webinar we invent and work with being a winner. I had this webinar back in 2013… The internet connection makes noise occasionally, and I had 9 years less experience.

Gradually, over time, following the process, diligently, you can leave behind your habitual way of being… Who you are being today, and your behavior will be a closer match to that of a winner… gradually.

The content is largely what I would teach today… so it’s good. And maybe having had less experience, I was still closer to where you are now… so I will talk more on you level where you are… so it will be easier to get.

Go and watch the webinar on how to be a winner… 

The context of everything we do in the Hero Program is being a winner… no matter what project you work on. and you’ll have to create a project, the context of that is also ‘I am a winner‘.

And then who is going to work on the project is a winner… and not a loser, not someone who can’t, not someone who won’t… no. A winner.

Context is decisive. And Causing this context, moment to moment, is what will make the most difference for your life.

Hoping the the context will make you a winner… I can hear that you are thinking that! No. Context will allow you to see yourself as a winner, unless you don’t do what winners attempt to do… i.e. you do nothing.


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Author: Sophie Benshitta Maven

True empath, award winning architect, magazine publisher, transformational and spiritual coach and teacher, self declared Avatar

One thought on “Often things you want look and feel and maybe ARE impossible”

  1. Sophie,

    I know that I am at the beginning of a process of growth. I hope that I am creating a solid foundation. I certainly want to live a big life. The night Nelson Mandela died, I went for a long walk listening to the songs of Bob Marley. Songs of Freedom. I want to be that inspiring.

    My vibration is at a very basic level. My inclination is to wait before making big plans or pronouncements. I want my life to stand for something, maybe something bigger than myself, something that brings meaning to my life every day. Or something I can bring meaning and value to.

    Your thoughts?

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