This is true in every area of life.
So what can be removed?
This is true in every area of life.
So what can be removed?
But they aren't... And like with everything, on the current level of humanity we have a really hard time holding it together, and even hope for a life that is bearable.
But with knowledge can come power... and that is what I am offering in this article.
Self-actualization, self-realization means: becoming the best you.
And the definition of good (according to Robert Hartman) is: that which fulfills completely its purpose.
Billionaire Charlie Munger says: Everybody wants the good life but not everybody gets the good life. “To get what you want, you have to deserve (earn!) what you want. The world is not yet a crazy enough place to reward a whole bunch of undeserving people.”
And deserving is being at the right place at the right time with the right attitude, doing the things that earns the stuff you want. Health, wealth, love, and happiness.
If I asked you what you do to earn what you want, you would say "nothing," or you would say "I do this and that."
...and when I ask you: how much of this and that do you do, timewise? we would find out that mostly you just think about it. Fantasize about it.
I remember as a child I fantasized a lot about how I was going to spend the million bucks I win on the lottery. My brother is not a child (he is 65) but he still does exactly that...
For years I supported him and his family, financially, and he never appreciated it. Why? Not because he is a bad person, and he may be a bad person... My contribution paled in comparison to the millions he fantasized about.
He wanted millions, and he was unhappy with my meager contribution to him... like 90% of humanity. 90% in the same trap. The technical term for that wanting is "the desire trap".
You don't even know what you would have to do, how much and with what attitude to actually earn what you want. Your wanting is just that... a gnawing dissatisfaction, with zero foundation in reality.
Life can be lived on two distinct planes (paradigms), the horizontal plane and the vertical plane.
Wanting keeps you squarely on the horizontal plane, the Valley of The Shadow of Death... every day you get one day closer to death, you are in a hurry, to avoid death, to avoid pain, to avoid discomfort, to avoid getting older.
Here is an email showing what I mean:
I see Orbs with me all the time, my outdoor cameras capture amazing Light Beings, since April I am able to feel the vibration from crystals and before that I feel vibrations from trees, especially if they are really old. At times I can feel their emotions. Wild cats come to me especially when I am sad or vibrating high.
Or your health:
I am very healthy and do not contract cold/flu. I've been sick once in the last few years. My skin is glowing. My hair lustrous. My skin on my body very soft to the touch. I am 42 but look much younger. I'm lean and fit. My body does not look it's age or even close to my age.
Could you please explain this to me?
None of it is what spirituality or health on the vertical plane are.
Your wanting, on the horizontal plane, acts as a distortion filter what narrows your cone of vision, and blurs your vision.
Seeing rightly allows you to see where you are. See it with sober eyes, and see how from where you are you can get to where you want to get to.
It may take one action, it may take a million, but you'll be able to see some actions that will, at least, take you to a place closer to where you want to be.
None of this is visible on the horizontal plane. And that means that every single action you take, or plan to take on the horizontal plane is misdirected. Based on a distorted view of reality, a distorted view of yourself as well.
Prayer, incantation, energy healing, schemes, goalsetting, vision boards, mind movies.
Some of those actually work on the vertical plane... but they never work instantly... because the nature of reality is that everything is a process.
Now, if you wanted to do what is the most expeditious action to get you what you want, your first step would be to get yourself in the position where you can see what is real, and act from there.
I have a bunch of short energy audios you can play in the background, looping, called Avatar State Activators.
I, for example play the Abundance Generator audio in my office. It has the audible birds in the meadow recording combined with the energy audio.
I am present to the audio, to the birds a few minutes in a normal day, and present and co-creative with the energy even less than that.
I asked one of my students how long he hears the audio. He told me he turns it on for a few minutes a day, the rest of the time he uses the speaker for something else.
And even when he hears the birds (he bought the Abundance Generator as well) he is not actively helping the energy to lift him to the vertical plane.
On the horizontal plane you expect everything to work without your input. If you bring that same attitude to getting to the vertical plane, to listening to the Avatar state activator audio. Your attitude is dragging your feet.
In my coaching methodology I only pay attention to the actions, attitudes, behaviors that keep you away from the heaven you seek.
And clarifying your vision, your target. Because without a vision, without a target to move towards, you are still dragging your feet.
I am always suspicious of busy people. Busy-ness covers up that you don't know where you are going, that you are scared to set a target, or that you just want excitement.
Even on the vertical plane it takes time for the eyes to see clearly, and to know what you are seeing. How do I know? I am observing myself, my eyes, and my own experience.
Obviously I don't go to the cave of my mind to see...
I do most of my looking and pondering of what I want to pick as a target either while talking to someone who knows something about what one needs to set a realistic target. About 10% of coaches can do that. The 90% is utterly clueless.
I once had a coach who created plans and targets for people that completely ignored reality, but baited them to stay and pay her the big bucks.
I have a student who is getting good at being a brainstorming partner with me: this may be the direction his life is moving... we shall see.
Having a conversation with someone who cannot see reality is not useful. Someone who lives fully on the horizontal plane...
I once, doing a project in a Landmark course, had a coach who was like a cheerleader... utterly useless.
That program, the accountability coaching is suitable only for people who make time to do the work it takes to get better, and get closer to their target.
Often the first target is to choose a direction, by the way. A target picked out of thin air is a mind-product: useless, and a false start. The target needs to come from your inner and outer reality... not from your head.
But in the accountability coaching you can test it... it will prove itself... or not.
And, as you interact with your accountability partner and me, DAILY!!!, your inner and outer reality is becoming easier and easier to see. Your eyes become sharper, and your actions become more and more in line with the direction you want to go.
How long does it take?
It's a tricky question. In my experience,
This is the main reason I refuse to take on many new participants. The more stuff they talk about, I know that they less they will be willing to reveal their reality.
The distance between their real self and their precious "I" they want to shove under my nose, is too big.
If you live an inauthentic life, if your livelihood, marriage, social standing is entrenched in having a façade, I most likely won't take you on as a client.
I don't mind carrying a man, but I don't want them to drag their feet.
Only in fables, like Jesus and the two sets of footprints FABLE suggest that you can be taken to heaven... No. Someone can walk you to heaven, but you need to do the walking.
Bad news? Hey... there is more where this came from.
What do you need?
I do that with every energy audio I have, by the way.
Heaven and Hell are real... Don't kid yourself. Please.
OK, what's next?
What can you expect from using this audio the way I explained above?
While hearing and working with the audio on a freestanding speaker, not on headphones
Or if you want to pick a different focus... here is the page with all the Avatar State Activatior Audios
But not all thoughts that occur are brilliant... not in a person who isn't opening his mouth... or who are saying the same things over and over again.
Things not worth thinking are also things not worth saying but you don't know that until you hear the echo.
What happens when you speak?
Humans didn't quite become humans until they had something to say. But speaking doesn't make someone human: having something worth to say does.
Who is to argue that ultimately that is what we all need!
Everyone hopes that their good acts redeem bad acts, but when we look at vibration: this is not what we find.
You cannot and should not ignore how reality works... so let's look.
Your vibration is almost always lower than you think.
I have started to watch TV shows on the computer recently again, after months of just reading. Continue reading "Give up liberties so you can have true freedom… or how fighting the strings on your puppet self create a life of unhappiness"
Here is MY clueless story...
I have been asking questions more than normal.
In the past seven years, my site's readership WAS steadily growing... until a month or two ago when it dropped to approximately half of what it was at that point.
It didn't, or better English, hasn't effected my income, but it looked troubling enough to start asking questions.
The pull to ask why questions is tremendous... Why me, why now, why people don't like me?
Meh... But what other questions can I ask?
Now, that is a really useful question: what other questions can I ask? Continue reading "Floundering? Can’t seem to get from A to B? Don’t know why nothing seems to work?"
Here is a little quiz: if you could choose between being gifted with, infused with, have it downloaded to your brain
--a million gigabytes of 2-7% truth value stuff into your mind
--a gigabytes (a million times less data, but through inner processing its truth value would go up to 30% and its use value would go up to 80%)
What would you choose?
Billionaires, I am told, like to read. Some billionaires read a lot. Continue reading "Is speed all it’s cracked up to be? Should you read faster?"
And the answer is: no. Neither the pieces of money, bits, bytes, paper or metal... they don't have any "vibration"... and neither does the idea of money, the concept of money.
The second question that needs to be answered: do YOU have a vibration? And the answer is no, you don't have "vibration" either.
So what are we talking about when we assign a certain number to a person? We are talking about what they can see accurately, and what attitude they have towards themselves, the world, and other people.
We compare them with the Ideal Man, the godlike being that was predicted in the scriptures... what is possible for a human on a higher level of evolution. A Human BEING.
Now, does your "vibration", the height matching your personal evolution with the scale of the Ideal Man, have anything to do with money?