Why you do what you do, and why you don’t do what you don’t do?

0b80ed013bf2d054f3a4e9ff6c80bb4b.500x280x1There are two types of students and there are two types of teachers.

Teacher One says: I’ll teach you!
Teacher Two says: I won’t quit until you learned it!

Student One says: I’ll come to your class, I’ll pay for your program and then I’ll try!
Student Two says: I’ll do whatever it takes to make sure I learn it and have it for myself.

This is not limited to learning…

One person says: I’ll try
Another person says: I can do it
The third person says: I’ll do it until it’s done

People who are willing to try are many. Teachers, students, doesn’t matter. 1

20100208 structuralTypes-miniAnd they happily do business in the fake area of one hand washes the other: “I’ll teach you and you’ll pretend to learn… but really you won’t get to any point where you’ll see that what I teach you, and how I teach you is ineffective, or maybe even destructive.” they say, and you nod… agreed.

That is the deal: I won’t call you on it if you don’t call me on it.

Go along to get along… the battle cry for the ordinary human. No skin in the game, the chicken in the making of the Ham and Eggs… not the pig.

On the surface the different groups of people are very different, and it is easy to judge them by their lack of capacities, lack of desire, lack of whatever…

And we do that, we judge people, or judge ourselves, all the while the REAL REASON we act differently is hidden from our view.

The truth is this: Your actions are in a perfect “dance”, perfect correlation with how the world occurs to you.

Occurrance is a skewed view of reality. What skews it is a speaking, but the speaking, for the most part, isn’t happening now, it happened long time ago.

When you were small, things were unknown, a mystery, a world to discover. And then, little by little, trauma by trauma you discovered that the world is better left undiscovered, because the world is not a friendly place. Or at least: it is not friendly to you.

Igor has a good video on this (Igor is the master hypnotist I like to share with you), called Perception is Projection.

And although Igor, like everyone else, tries to change people’s minds directly, this point about perception is right on the money.

What do I do if everyone, including yourself, tries to change people’s mind directly? I leave people’s minds alone… and take a different route.

And in my experience, this route is brilliantly effective. I can see it on my students, and I can see it on myself.

One “tiny” change to share: I used to be completely and totally whacked out by mosquitoes, or other flying insects bothering my legs while I work. And if I had a bite, I would scratch it till it was lasting for weeks… and was driving me bonkers. I would be afraid to sleep. I would get fevers.

It’s August, and I always have a bite or two on myself. I haven’t scretched any of them, I just let them heal on their own accord.

How is that for transformation?

Another “tiny” change I noticed, as a result of people “trying” to get out of judgmental mode, is that stuff doesn’t occur as wrong any more. No evaluation, no reaction, nothing.

So there is no need to let go, to push it out, to use any technique at all… there is nothing wrong, and that is how the world is occurring to me.

Now, that was long coming, but it’s here… Yaaay. And, what is even better, it is available to you through my programs. I recommend the Playground and the Harmonizer combo… unbeatable.

Oh, and before I forget, here is Igor’s video: Perception in Projection.


More of Igor’s video clips, and also the transcript are here

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  1. Most of what you find in the online or offline teaching “industry”, spirituality, meditation, yoga, healing, transformation… No results are guaranteed… Even Landmark says: “We are only responsible for the orderly delivery of programs…” everything else is totally and legally up to you. The result: you get little or no results, you get lots of talking, no results. No one delivers, literally, unless it’s an accident, no one delivers on their promises. And it is not your fault: it is the system’s fault. The “system” hasn’t figured it out how to alter the customers so they CAN benefit from the programs BEFORE they take them. The subconscious bs is that: bs. Hypnosis as a modality is 99% b.s. Transformational courses are b.s. Not because they want to be b.s. but because it takes a one-on-one approach to alter people’s world… as so painfully I have been finding out. It’s painful because my earning power is between zero to none… and wonderful because the newest methods work, and they work like gangbusters.

Author: Sophie Benshitta Maven

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2 thoughts on “Why you do what you do, and why you don’t do what you don’t do?”

  1. The last thing Igor asked was “How do we build a world inside ourselves that we actually want to live in?” The answer for me was the Instant Coherence workshop. Ever since I found my organizing principle in that workshop, I live in a world that I actually want to live in. Instead of miserable and so many things “wrong.” That is beyond price and I can never thank you enough Sophie.

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