But reality is more like an iceberg: every spot goes deep below the visible, several layers, into the dark depths of the ocean.
Living on the surface, considering the visible to be all there is, gives you a life that is as vulnerable as it gets. You are not dealing with it all.
You are probably also lazy or appear to be lazy. Because laziness is a great excuse: you can ignore, i.e. willfully discount that everything that matters is below the surface.
You are probably very miserable because you are expecting life to be a fairy tale, and life isn’t a fairy tale at all. Life is dangerous. And even real beauty, the richness of life, anything that is worth living for, isn’t on the surface for easy pickings. Life doesn’t give up easily its treasures.
Your job, (if you want to work on your soulcorrection,) is to get into the habit of going deep, and doing it joyfully, because it is interesting, fascinating, and fun.
Fall in love with it, or you won’t do it. The rewards won’t be immediate.
Lift every carpet, wall covering, every pretense, every myth, every belief, every story, every so called truth.
Ask for guidance, but don’t ask for someone else to do the work for you.
Grow up. No one can do your work for you. You are the one.