This article expresses a turning point in my work… read it fully if you can.
Some of you may wonder why I am not starting the new Second Phase Activators course… after all I have done it three years ago…
But truth be told… I have learned so much in these three years… that the new course needs a lot of work… maybe not a lot of time, but a lot of thought and technology. And now that I am working on some new activators, my understanding of activation has changed dramatically… Keep reading.
There are two kinds of activators.
- Ability activators…The “qualities” exceptional people show: consistency, authority, the ability to choose well, see what needs to get done and in what order, see what’s missing, see people’s hearts, appreciation, kindness, unconditional love, connecting, etc.
These are inactive abilities in 99% of humanity… and unless you have them activated, you will NOT be able to duplicate results others produce.
It is not intellect, but it is intelligence… and unless some ancestor of yours sorely needed it and was willing to go “do or die” to get it, you don’t have it.
- feeling type activators: these are explained below
I have spoken of the test I took, where I discovered that I didn’t have 70 feelings from a list of 100.
And then there are the DNA activation type… where the capacity to do, be, have…
I am seeing that in the Second Phase Activators course we didn’t activate many abilities… I didn’t see the distinction between feeling and capacity…
The newest activator I came upon this past Sunday, “the capacity to see the consequences of your actions… or any action” is an ability activator.
I will have to decide the order of these activators, so they build on one another.
And the biggest challenge, at this point is to bundle the feeling activators so it doesn’t take me hours per person… because it would be too expensive if it did.
Not that it wouldn’t be worth to be able to feel all those wonderful feelings… I just don’t want to work that much.
So I have my job cut out for me.
In the meantime I got lucky, and some people are paying me to install both types of activators, so I can work on live people, not in theory, and even get paid for it.
Now, a little more about the difference between feeling activators and ability activators
Yesterday I was coaching a client at her request. I don’t do this, as a rule, without getting paid, but the capacity I called “the sight”, which is really your third eye… the capacity to see the consequences of your actions told me to coach her.
I had no idea what I was going to get, but I trust the sight, and I coached the person, in email back and forth. You have the copy of emails in my previous post… minus two exchanges after I published the article.
The real value, for me, came in those emails.
I am going to explain, because even reading the emails you won’t be able to see what I saw.
Turns out that when you say “appreciation” and when I say “appreciation” we are not talking about the same thing.
You mean describing that warm fuzzy feeling of having gotten what you wanted. Liking what you got. The temporary satisfaction of receiving.
What I mean is a capacity. The capacity to see what is valuable. To see people’s desires, their self-interest as valuable. Maybe not for you, valuable nevertheless.
The capacity to see value, at least on one of the three levels: intrinsic, extrinsic, systemic levels. And give it value… like a nod.
Appreciate comes from the Latin, and means “set a price” i.e. value.
It is a capacity to see value even when you don’t like something. Even when it is not a value for you.
So, you see, in that interaction what got distinguished is that almost all capacities have a feeling component.
Some people don’t know what appreciation feels like, and therefore won’t feel it… and having no feelings of appreciation makes you very disconnected from other people and your own life.
And nearly everyone doesn’t have the ability activated, the capacity to see value where value is. The value can be zero, by the way, a zero is a value.
In the issue the client was dealing with, the mother in law liked to help without being asked, without being interfered with, cleaning her son’s house, doing their ironing.
Huge value provided extrinsically, and intrinsically we see love, caring, warmth.
But not for the daughter in law… for her the only thing that is present is a violation of her boundaries.
So she can’t express, authentically, an appreciation for who the mother in law IS (warmth, love, caring), and even the extrinsic value, the one you can put a price tag on, has little value for her, because of the way it happens.
So my coaching was way off… I coached her from the dizzying height of someone with the capacity of appreciation active… instead of from where she is at.
Confession time: all the coaches coach you from where you are, because that’s where they are too.
I cannot, I am not able to see the world from where you are… not really. So, for coaching like that, I am pretty useless… unless you have the capacity that is missing activated, so you can have the results of my coaching: love, connection, appreciation, and peace with the husband, and peace with the generous mother in law.
I don’t know if it is clear to you that the more abilities you activate the richer and more satisfying life becomes… also a ton less stress, believe me.
With that said, I am continuing these amazing experiments, so I can make a lasting, irreversible difference in your life.
And because all the activations effect the history level, maybe alter the quality of life on the planet… we shall see, right?
PS: I’ll say it clearer here: your intrinsic value cannot be seen by someone who doesn’t have the ability “appreciation” turned on. Not the feeling capacity… I hope it is clear now. Appreciation is NOT a feeling… although it has a feeling component.
PPS: As I was looking for pictures for this article, I was stunned by the thousands of method people sell to activate your DNA… all of them fake, ineffective, whether it’s energy, audio, drops, words… ineffective…
I am suddenly not surprised that not all of you wanted the new ability turned on. I would call it something else, but then I would lie with the name… oh well…
PPPS: there is a third type of “activator” energy. It is based on the principle of homeopathy: like kills like in the energy field… roughly. The emotional shock absorber, the HOE, work on that principle