Methods of getting unstuck… not your garden variety advice

squirrel-stuck-in-a-treeMethods of getting unstuck… If you know you are stuck… in a rut, a behavior, in a cycle, in a predictable outcome, or on a plateau

  1. Method one: What is my context that is keeping me stuck? Who am I being?

    or said in another way: who am I being that is not in alignment with the Original Design…with the intention of the Soul, which is the part of me that comes from the Original Design?

    The Original Design has one main distinction: what is your desire?

    Is your desire for yourself (or your group) alone? Do others, outside of yourself or your group benefit if you receive what you desire?

    Desire for yourself alone is the only negative energy in the Universe. And nothing, no charitable thought, feeling, or action balances it out.

    Want to learn more? Want some coaching?

    The next “recap” session, supposedly on Friday, September 9 at 4 pm (Maybe I should push it to Saturday?) will be about this skill… and outlook… get what you desire in a way that it benefits everyone…

    I have people who send a donation to find out their vibration. I check out their social media footprint, and they are high minded, charitable, merciful, in action, in thoughts, on the top of their desire for the self alone.

    Really bad news for them when I send them their really low vibrational reading… they get angry. They may even call me names. Because they could not deceive me.

    who-are-you-beingWhen you have greed (throat and upper chest pressure), or resistance (shoulders and arms) or belligerence (like a shield pressing on your chest from underarm to underarm) your desire for the self alone gives you away.

    So does any fear.

    Fear is a desire for the self alone. The high drama in the book 1984… the fear of annihilation by the rats… and giving up love and the loved one, the higher values for it… Put me out of commission for the past 2-3 weeks.

    It also made me look. At myself. And I have been dealing with fear of disease, fear of being unheard, fear of spiders, fear of mosquito bites (lol), and I am giving it all up, or at least attempt to.

    I had a call with a lovely man yesterday. It was a health call. At some point he shared his “adventures” with money… how he had to lose earnings he didn’t work for, how he is doing it again in his business.

    We haven’t been taught, or we didn’t get it… that context is decisive.

    It is in the context it is decided whether something is evil or godly.

    I am good at creating new context where it all becomes godly. I have been doing it about 55 years.

    interview 2I can look back and see where and how I would have become stuck, like most people, in ordinary, shallow, self-serving life…

    The skill to create a context where desire becomes a desire for the sake of sharing… where you become a channel for the beneficence and abundance of the Universe… is what makes me different.

    Maybe that is the only thing that makes me different, maybe that is the only thing that keeps my vibration at the dizzying height where it is.

    I am perfectly OK being a channel.

  2. ball-of-grief

    The second method is inversion.

    Asking different questions allows you to see different things.

    Asking yes questions is the hallmark of greed. Desire for the self alone.

    What do I want, what more shall I want, do, ask for, blah blah blah.

    The method of inversion is the opposite. This is the method of asking “what not to do” questions… What you don’t want… who you should not be, what you should not want.

    What should I do, could I do, to completely or partially plug up my ability to receive? To grow? To be loved? To love…

    It’s an unpopular question, because of the huge negative energy that is dominating the planet. The energy of desire for the self alone.

    That is the only negativity, by the way…

    So let’s see an example:

    What would I have to do?
    What would I have to think?
    What would I need to focus on?
    What would I need to consider too important?

    I could look at a whole life… I could look at an area of life… I could look on a project level…

    So let me look at a friend’s life. He is 72 years old. His business generates only as much money as he earns with his work: no residual. The business is not saleable, and it doesn’t run without him working.

    He has a sickly wife. He has two kids that will either help or not if he ever becomes needy of help.

    He sees that he is stuck in a situation that is not sustainable. He feels vulnerable, and he is.

    So let’s ask the questions:

    What would he have to do to make his situation worse?
    What would he have to think to make his situation worse?
    What would he need to focus on to make his situation worse?
    What would he need to consider too important to make his situation worse?

    cannot-buy-freedomEver since I’ve known him he has been buying expensive courses that promise instant results, easy results, results without work.

    Why? Because he neither has the skills nor the time to invest… he works seven days a week. But he still has decent credit… but his credit cards are darn close to be maxed out.

    Because there is nothing that can make money without work or without skills, all his purchases are money down the drain.

    You can’t buy skills, and you can’t buy time…

    He is trying to buy his way out of his situation. He thinks that it’s possible. He focuses on getting out, instead of building anything to qualify to make more money or money in a different way. He considers too important that he makes unearned money… why? Winning, getting, seems the only winningest way for him… preferably on the back of someone losing that money… Is that conscious? I am afraid so.

    As long as you are about your needs, you are on the side of the negative energy: desire for the self alone. And life won’t work for you, the area won’t work for you, the project won’t work for you.

    Why? Because it cannot… or it cannot work sustainably.

    The guy I talked to yesterday had to get rid of the undeserved earnings, or put his company under.

    The innate need of not keeping anything unearned, or paying for it in other ways, health, happiness, is how the soul keeps you in balance.

There are other methods… but this is it for now.

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Author: Sophie Benshitta Maven

True empath, award winning architect, magazine publisher, transformational and spiritual coach and teacher, self declared Avatar

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