Your Dark Side: Desire For The Self Alone, Often Meaning Cutting Your Nose In Spite Of Your Face

All religions are against selfishness. All parents, all people tell you that you are a better person if you are about others than about you.

The problem with this universally accepted principle is that we actually don't know what we are talking about. It seems that what we are asked to be selfless, noble, etc.

Selfless can mean two things, both are a crime, a sin 1 , a horrible thing:

  1. We have and know no self. This is a widespread phenomenon in this day and age, and I was a victim of it for many decades.I actually did not know what I liked, what I wanted, what turned me on. I knew fairly well what I didn't like, but just like with everything, there are a thousand ways to miss the bulls eye, but only one way to hit it.

    Knowing who you are, what you want, what turns you on, what ticks you off, what your preferences are, what your values are is mandatory, if you want to be on the path to become a human being. Without that you are just unconscious sheep. 2

  2. Giving up your own life, your own interest, your own enjoyment, your own fulfillment for others.You cannot be a human being giving away your own life: it is against your nature, you are suppressing your nature, and anything suppressed will get its due: you either will go crazy, sick, or raging angry at the most inopportune times. It is only your ego, the one that says: "but I am good..." enjoys it.

    Human Being, (not just by looks and physiology, but by consciousness,) a Human Being, takes 100% responsibility for his physiology, for his needs, and takes care of those, without abusing anyone, without taking away anything that belongs to someone else.

    A real Human Being does not suppress: instead uses his intelligence to express the needs, fulfill the need in appropriate times and places.

    You need to own that you are built on animal body, and consciousness, nothing will change that. Making it wrong kills you, kills your body, kills your spirituality, but feeds your ego.

    Unless you are Self-ish, your life won't matter. Your self-expression will be pretentious and fake, or non-existent. Your creative powers will be un-expressed, unused, or frittered away.

Now, let me talk about something that no one talks about: another price of suppression: ego.

Ego, in its eagerness to make you special, make you successful, is doing a horrible number on you.

All Soul Corrections deal with this very issue: I am going to explain it here.

Instead of being Self-ish, (knowing who you are, knowing what is your unique expression, knowing what you need and what you want, without EVER violating another's right for the same) you have suppressed Self-ishness, and now you feel justified to trample on other people's rights, interfere with their lives, or withhold what you would naturally give them.

Most of your life is about earning power over others... a clear violation of the base law: you can have anything you want without taking away another's right for self-determination, for fulfilling their purpose, to earn their living, to live in peace and happiness.

Your main occupation in life is trying (and succeeding) in making people miserable, upset, feel bad about themselves, get sick, lose the will to live.

I mean it. This is your main occupation, your main, albeit hidden purpose in life, unless you are Self-ish.

When you are Self-ish, you are busy creating, you are busy self-expressing, or meditating.

People suffer servitude, or animosity around you, and you pretend that you have nothing to do with it.

You won't really do anything else, lest they have some fun, some benefit, feel like they can just live their lives. No, you won't allow that!

Let me give you a recent example:

I have recently released a revolutionary audio recording, called Harmonize The Planet. Originally it was meant, like the name suggests, for harmonizing the planet. Kind of a "donation" I was collecting to be able to make a difference in the world. That is something very important to me, given that humanity has accelerated the pace with which it is destroying life on the planet. And there are not a lot of people whose activity can make a difference in that arena. I was excited that I could create something, and I thought that people will be excited to be able to contribute. After all this is OUR planet. And I supposed that my readership consisted of high-minded people.

Then something unexpected happened: the audio turned out to be doing two other things, on the level of the individual, things I didn't know it would do or even could do..

It turned out to be an effective antidote for the common anguish and anxiety... Trust me, I had tried everything before, and nothing worked like this audio.

The second thing that it does is even more valuable. You see, to go to the next evolutionary level, humans need to use the mind as a tool, instead of being used by the mind... like puppets.

People use their minds to understand things, to listen, to see, to see what they feel. The mind is not a suitable tool for that, so people are completely cut off from reality, and the culprit is the predominance of the mind.

This audio shuts up the mind. It creates a welcome pause, a silence, in which the Beyond can talk to you, in which you can contemplate who you are, in which you can feel your feelings, listen to your inner guidance, hear what others are saying, or just rest.

The audio cost a pittance, but only my students are buying it.

When I muscle tested why other readers don't buy it, I got that people resent that they have to pay for others' benefit. They'd rather stay anguished, or riddled with a busy mind, lest others benefit from what they are doing.

Now, whether they are thinking of their mother-in-law, their "best" friend, I don't know. I know one thing: if it benefits another, as well as them, they don't want it.

Some 25 years ago I had a lover. Every time I wanted to have sex, he refused. He said he felt used. He said that I was asking for it because it was good for me.

What he could not see, did not see, is that he, a man, always enjoyed sex, whether I did or not. But he preferred that he was the only one enjoying it.

Somehow it made him feel better if he was the only beneficiary of the "act."

The people that say: no, "I won't buy the Harmonize The Planet audio, because it also helps others," are just like this one-time boy friend of mine.

A direct result of pretending all your life to be generous and selfless... while you withhold yourself and wish everyone dead around you.

Footnotes

  1. meaning: you miss life in its entirety, all the present moments, all the good stuff, all the bed stuff... that is the meaning of the word, originally, of sit. Missing the mark... namely the present moment
  2. But worse than that: even if you want to walk on the path: whatever you don't have, whatever is not solid enough to drop, you can't drop it. Which means you are stuck with an undefined, amorphous "self" that doesn't serve you at all. You'll go into your mind trying to remember who the heck you were in the past to give you some semblance of guidance!

Author: Sophie Benshitta Maven

award winning architect, magazine publisher, transformational and spiritual coach and teacher, self declared Avatar

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