If you don’t take feedback well, you need to grow up and get cracking.


You need to get better, maybe even good at it. 1

So here are a few "memes" I picked today.

When you distinguish something, the whole world seems to rotate around the thing you just distinguished, so feedback showed up everywhere.

And I got acknowledged by two people on the trip to the grocery store... so I am getting better too... lol.

OK, here are the pictures.... almost...

What should you do with them?

First off figure out, feel why they are feedback. To whom? Does the feedback apply to you? Are you the one giving it, or you could have gotten it your self?

Have you been ignoring it?

Is there a way you could take it a guidance?

Guidance to what?

You want to ask the question: Do I want to be the kind of person who needs this feedback?

In my case, a pain in the ass... And my answer was: no. That is NOT who I want to be. So I took the guidance, and started to pay attention what about my behavior was a pia (pain)... with the intention of eliminating them, one by one.

So please do that.

Without this you'll never become a person...


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This last one is the most useful to me.
It's not personal. It is the other... but if I don't want to be scratched, I better behave! lol. Instead of trying to force my friendship on cats.

Footnotes

  1. Unless you are a cat person and willing to risk that only people who can't connect to anyone else will connect to you.

    By the way, this may not be true for cats... Cats are a lot smarter than that.

Author: Sophie Benshitta Maven

award winning architect, magazine publisher, transformational and spiritual coach and teacher, self declared Avatar

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