How old are you being? What is the age of your behavior? What is your emotional age?

don't tell me what to doThe human mind is a pattern seeking, pattern interpreting machine. Yet very few people ever pay attention to the patterns.

One of the patterns they would notice, if they paid attention, is this distinction: the age of the behavior, and the age of sayings... the age of the reaction.

Unless something is pointed out, people look but they don't see. This includes patterns.

The few people that pay attention to patterns have a lot to tell you about you, and about the people you interact with... by the patterns of their behavior and the patterns of their speaking.

When someone sends me a donation to get their vibration checked, I send them back a number, their vibrational number, a number between 0 and 1,000, and a suggestion of what would be their first step to raise their vibration.

I don't pull that suggestion out of my behind, and it is not a pre-written note: no, I actually spend the time to feel that person's feelings, and be, for a few seconds, in their life as them. I muscle test my hunches and then I send the email back to the person.

Then comes the interesting part: I get to watch their behavior (or their speaking) and practice divining the emotional and evolutionary age they got stuck at. More often than not, their behavior is very predictable.

For example, a person asked for their vibration yesterday. It measured 130, which means intense suffering, and a reduced level of intelligence. At 130 you are literally reduced to the level of a stupid person, regardless of what your DNA says your level of intelligence should be. You are out of whack...

In my email I recommended that she starts with the Heaven on Earth, the drops, not even the audio version. The HOE Long Range still requires one to have a higher level of consciousness than 130 to work.

The drops, the physical version of Heaven on Earth works on you, works on your dog, cat... it doesn't require you to participate with it.

don't tell me what to doSo, upon getting my email, she went to the site and bought the Harmonize your vibration audio and the Water Energizer.

The attitude I detected was "Don't tell me what to do!"

So, what is the age of that behavior? Any guesses?
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I want what I want when I want itThe age of that behavior, "Don't tell me what to do!" 1 is around 3 years of age. The child doesn't want to be helped, the child is trying to develop an identity independent from the mother. Perfect at age three, not so good when you are an adult, and when you pay an expert for advice.

Yet, a large percentage of you are there...

The first thing I recommend that you do, if you are interested in growing yourself up without aging, if you are interested in becoming more appropriate to life, and raising your vibration:

Catch the dominant behavior. Resistance will guide you... and sometimes anxiety will guide you.

Try to find the pattern, try to find the age of that pattern.

We do work like this on the coaching calls... it is both fun, effective, and of course, it is confronting.

It is not an easy thing to face that you are behaving like a three year old, when you thought you were mature, even old... maybe a professional, maybe a boss, a business owner, maybe even a coach for other people.

But until you get down to the "diagnosis" you will try to change the behavior, and not the cause of it.

There is a methodology to raise the age of your dominant behavior, so you can become a winner, and a happy person.

But it all begins with awareness. Always start at the beginning, always.

Footnotes

  1. also: I want what I want when I want it... or Infantile Will To Power, named by Nietsche. Temper tantrum is an expression of that...

Author: Sophie Benshitta Maven

award winning architect, magazine publisher, transformational and spiritual coach and teacher, self declared Avatar

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