Humility: how do you know it’s lacking? What is there instead?

self-concern vs humilityHumility, wrongful pride, high about me score, self-concern… They all say the same thing.

The single most important blockage you have to raising your consciousness, raising your vibration.

In the 3-wishes workshop, one that I lead every Saturday afternoon, the one that never gets boring, I stumbled onto something that had never been revealed in all its gory beauty to the participants before: how focusing on hiding the self-concern completely and totally robs you of a life that you live powerfully, a life that you enjoy living, a life where you are productive and love yourself.

I have taught the concept, the distinction of ‘about-me’ for a decade now, but had never found a way to make it so visible, so visceral as in yesterday’s workshop.

humility... what does it mean?In the following video that I made some 8-9 years ago I explain how wrongful pride, a high about-me score, lack of humility manifests itself in life.

I had a good example to watch: myself. Over the years, most of it in the first 49 years, I was being completely lead astray, kept miserable, alone, and widely hated by my missing humility… so I knew what it is like — intimately. But most of us never identify it, never distinguish it as lack of humility… We are sure we are right… we are accurate… we are the victims.

I didn’t know it was me, I thought other people did that to me, by the way. The world… lol.

self-concern victim t-shirtI was a victim, and then a recovering victim… You might remember me sharing about my T-shirt, the one I got in the Communication Commando Course. Everyone avoids a victim like a plague… even if they, themselves feel like a victim.

After yesterday’s session, one of my best participants contacted me to buy an activator to activate the capacity: humanity (also called ‘it’s not about me!’)

As I was preparing the activator for her, I noticed that there is another activator I created more than eight years ago… So I went back and reviewed it myself.

To my surprise, I already know about humility what I know now, eight years ago. I just forgot it…

So I gifted it to my student: it was profound to me to see how accurate I was eight years ago.

Then I separated from the video the part where I detail what happens when your about-me score is high, when your humanity score is low…

This short video is half of a meditation session, a session where I activate the capacity of humility.

It is the best thing, up there with sliced bread. It altered my life, and it is single handedly responsible for my high vibration. How high? Almost ten times higher than the average vibration on the planet.

I always wondered what kicked my vibration in high gear, but I didn’t remember. Or maybe I didn’t realize how that single step skyrocketed my vibration.

From that fact you can safely surmise, you can safely guess, that the ‘normal’ person has a high about-me score, has wrongful pride, and that is what prevents him or her from being able to raise their vibration.

There is only one hindrance: for this activation to work, you need to be able to connect to your Tangerine Spot, intimately, with your attention. When you are connected to the Tangerine Spot, you are connected to Source on the first level. There are two more levels, I have only taught the first two to some students, one of them is still a student… and now he actually works with me.

If you are a newbie in connecting, putting your palm over your Tangerine Spot works, but it can get tiresome… Wearing a skull cap with enough weight for you to feel it is also a good help in locating your tangerine spot.

Your challenge will be, no matter what method you choose, in directing your attention there and keeping it there. so you may have to make a habit of using this activation video daily.

Training your attention is an invaluable activity you can engage in, this video will help you: all it takes is correct practice.

Attention is directed by WILL, no the mind. The mind doesn’t know anything about attention.

I am connected all day, nearly 24/7. Even when I yell… even when I moan… even then.

activate humilityThe activation was part of the daily connection series which I called: Third Phase activation… Each of the 12 activators cost $30, and the collection of 12 cost $117.

Seeing how even my core group can’t get over this hump… because understanding is not enough, I decided to run a special on these activators, that include the Humility (aka Wrongful Pride aka it’s not about you) activator.

If you get the whole package before Tuesday, January 19 midnight, you get 30% off the package. Or just get the Humility activator and use the same coupon code COMPACT. In an additional step you can add a 15-minute training to be trained to keep your Tangerine Spot active.


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PS: here is a clip from the movie Fountainhead… where a high about-me score person and a low about-me score person converse… Enjoy

Author: Sophie Benshitta Maven

True empath, award winning architect, magazine publisher, transformational and spiritual coach and teacher, self declared Avatar