I don't have a lot of opportunities to practice this, but it is clearly needed. When I teach responsibility from the height of "I have this handled" no one seems to be getting it.
So here is my opportunity to teach it from the trenches, as I am going through the struggle myself.
Here is what happened:
Two years ago I bought a course for three thousand dollars... teaching how to sell on Amazon. I bought it, I looked at it, and I didn't feel up to it...
A few months ago I looked at the course again, and decided to attempt to use it...
I followed the teaching and I came up empty handed... and disgusted.
Then I had the bring idea to put my Heaven on Earth remedy up for sale... To my surprise after I renamed it Sleep Rescue Remedy, people got interested. I knew it worked, I used it and so did many people... and all the reports were that it worked.
The remedy is water, a little bit of alcohol, and the 40 Bach Energies I personally infuse in the bottles.
I got entangled in the desire trap... it made me excited. Maybe cocky... I felt superior.
Then I decided to add more of my remedies to my "product line"...
My optimism soared, and I added new specially crafted "designer" remedies to my amazon store...
Then, I made a mistake: I somehow, inadvertently, exposed myself to other sellers that lurk in the amazon sellers forums... and I got attacked and then my products were reported to Amazon as offensive, bogus, whatever... I never found out exactly what they said, but all my products were removed from Amazon and I had no recourse. Amazon is an equal opportunity site: you can sell if they allow you to. And equally, you can sell somewhere else, if they don't... lol.
Anyway, I muscle tested if I should hang in, or if I should just pull into my shell and lick my wounds... I had to muscle test it because the urge was so strong.
You can guess, the muscle test said: "fight on, my brave soldier..." lol.
So, how do you not feel like a victim, even though you got hurt? How do you pull your power back, so you can recover and "live for another day?"
If you look at your life, you should ask this question, depending on your lifestyle, many times a day. People talk funny, rude, dismissing at you. People drive as if they didn't care about you. The mail is late. The fedex driver leaves the package in the snow. Money is scarce. Sophie calls you on your "s-h-i-t"...
Our first instinct is to blame it on them! The second instinct is to make ourselves wrong: I was wrong to do this, that, blah blah blah. And the third instinct is to call the whole thing wrong... your life, life, the system, your desire, your ambitions, your marriage... everything.
You need it, and I'll show you how to take it back.
Don't expect fireworks. It is really simple. I said simple, I didn't say easy! It is not easy, but you can do it.
- Step 1: Find something in what happened that belongs to you.
d--something that you thought
e--something that you said
f--something that you expected that didn't get fulfilled
g--something that you assumed
h--something that you meant to say but didn't
i--something that you really intended but it didn't work
- Step 2: Find a way to say what you found in step one, simply with the language that starts with "I" "did or do" "what" AND "the result if any"
In my case:
- with sub point a: I feel hurt
- with sub point f: I expected my Amazon business to grow and give me a full time income so I can blah blah blah... AND it didn't happen.
- with sub point g: I assumed that all sellers are good to each other AND I was mistaken
- with sub point b: I had a cocky attitude AND it took me to actions that weren't very intelligent
- Amazon's job is to protect itself and its customers, not me.
you can do one or you can do all.
The capacities for courage, responsibility, being impervious to pain, fear, attacks, etc. are part of the Second Phase Activator, and are in the Effortless Abundance remedy... if you think you need some nudge then get that remedy... All remedies are a 2 for 1 deal until further notice. Just order what you want to pay for, and I double it on my end. No need to ask.