Now, why would I be so excited about that? After all we live in an oversexed society... right?
But the society is oversexed because of manipulation, not because we were "designed" this way!
One of the most important books I have ever read was Michel Foucault's The History of Sexuality. It is a difficult read, but I was hooked early on: I have a soft spot for sexuality, if you haven't noticed, lol.
I read only one of the four(?) volumes, volume 2.
In that book he tells the reader how sexuality is being used by the powers that be to play 3-card Monte with humanity. 1
Foucault say that by turning sex into the topic of conversation, people
- get busy thinking about sex
- start having less sex, or less satisfying sex in reality
- lose touch with the enormous energy that is stored in human sexuality and it becomes unavailable to them.
- they are too pre-ccupied and too weak to fight for their freedoms or stand up for themselves.
Sports figures, before an important event, are warned by their coaches to refrain from sex. Why? Because the sexual energy is a vehicle for the soul to move you.
Let me explain: the size of your desire will ultimately determine how much you get in life.
Imagine yourself being at a dinner where you need to bring your plate or bowl if you want to eat. If you bring a big bowl, you can eat a lot. If you bring a saucer... you got the picture, right? The bowl and the saucer are vessels of desire.
Most of us are walking around in life with a thimble size vessel.
We further reduce the size by always consuming (fulfilling) sexual desire... never increasing the fire. By eating even when we are not hungry. By picking up the phone to talk, texting, sending an email, buying stuff... whenever a thimble-sized desire accumulates.
Our digestive fire, our sexual fire, our intellectual fire, our emotional fire get smaller and smaller... it works a lot like batteries.
A new battery can hold a full charge and release it in let's say 4-5 hours. Then, every time you plug the appliance in before the battery is fully empty, or every time you charge it only enough to be usable, you reduce the amount of charge the battery can hold.
One of my laptops is now able to go on battery power for exactly 2 minutes.
So, what do you do with a tired, corrupted battery?
You can let it run empty, then recharge it fully, then let it run empty... until it learns a new trick... and it does.
The same is the method with the other tired and corrupted faculties of yours. Sexual energy, hunger, intellectual and emotional hunger.
I have mentioned this in my "Passion" article, and I got a lot of feedback from my students. They can't see themselves able to change.
So, what else can you do to rekindle and restore the original vessel of sexual desire and energy?
At the time of writing that article I didn't know. I know now. You can actually restore the battery to new... like factories do all the time.
10 days ago I started to give myself Source energy on my sexual organs. I have experienced
- increased sensation there... good news! 🙂
- increased imagination... I have had quite a few wet dreams since then
- increased sensitivity
- increased mental sharpness
- and markedly decreased craving for food, conversation, chocolate, sleep, etc.
- my ability to work longer without getting tired is off the charts
As an empath, I can't really feel what the Source energy (light) is doing... but...
Last Saturday I had five women on the Connection call and I did a long sexual healing meditation with them. That "treatment" repeated a few times would send these women over the moon.
Last Sunday I did a 40-minute sexual healing session with a male friend of mine over the phone, and could clearly feel how the light was warming up, returning aliveness, changing color and texture of the different regions, including the nether regions.
I am going to do more experiments, and if they are as effective as I predict they are going to be, I'll be starting to do regular sexual healing classes: separate for men and women.
It seems to me that you need that energy, you need that fire. And the soul definitely needs you to have it.
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PS: If you think that your partner needs it, not you, take a long hard look at yourself, and sign up to learn to connect. Your partner will want to find out what you did... that is what you want, right?
- 3-card Monte is that street-con game in which a group of people fleece unsuspecting passers by. One shuffles the cards, two pretend to be passers by and they win, and two watch out for the police.