Soul Correction: Trust But Don’t Be Stupid!
The person with this soulcorrection has had a lot of disappointments, betrayals, and let-downs.
The behavior that has led to these experiences is an interesting one: the person with this issue pretends to only see what supports what they project. They pretend not to see the warning signs of setting themselves up to be betrayed.
It’s a game. Their hidden agenda is to prove that no one can be trusted, that they need to be alone, and lick their wounds.
They continue the game even while they are alone: they refuse to do any thinking, they assign their thinking to the person/persons that they want next to betray them, let them down.
What is there to do to stop this nasty machine to use your life? It doesn’t look simple, does it?
The first step to do is to become completely and totally self-driven and internally driven.
Find and catch the word “because,” and turn it around: be cause, become the cause. Learn to get the answers to your questions yourself and stop begging others to do your thinking and do your decision making. You are going to find it near impossible, but that is your work.
The second step is to practice taking responsibility for what you hold true, and speaking it when necessary.
You have a good mind, now use it.
Once you stop needing others, you can create relationships on an ‘equals joining for some purpose’ basis, instead of offering to be used, or using others.
If you want to know your own soulcorrection (great guidance!) follow the instructions on that page.