Self-possessed… living from the Witness position, living from Consciousness

The question in your life is: who possesses who? Who possesses what?But the answer to that question, albeit it is fashionable to think that the guy/gal with the most toys wins, will surprise you: the person who possesses himself wins, every step of the way.I pretty much don’t know anyone with any level of self-possession: … Continue reading “Self-possessed… living from the Witness position, living from Consciousness”

Self-possessed: the remedy for anxiety and anguish

I have no more mites in the house, or on my body… but research and testing must continue… so I decided to see a client again. Body work. A perfect setup for reinfestation.I could have waited till Tuesday, and get reinfected at the chiropractor, but why waste a perfect weekend… lol.Now, I don’t want to … Continue reading “Self-possessed: the remedy for anxiety and anguish”

It’s not if you win or lose, it’s how you play the game

Millions of pages quote this meme, but everybody understand it differently. Because we, culturally defined humans, we have no idea what is the game, and how we play it. No clue what to pay attention and what is relevant to the how.No distinction.The dude who coined the meme, Grantland Rice was a sports writer. He … Continue reading “It’s not if you win or lose, it’s how you play the game”

Stupid is as stupid does. How this helped raise my vibration

Stupid as stupid does. the saying that was at the root of me raising my vibrationI have known that my turnaround happened when I declared that I was stupid, in 1996, and I embraced it. Accepted it. Came to terms with it.But I had no idea until this morning how I got to that point. … Continue reading “Stupid is as stupid does. How this helped raise my vibration”

Steve Jobs said: only looking backwards you can…

Why did Steve Jobs say: You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards? Why couldn’t he connect the dots forward?Very few people, mainly only chess masters and strategists, have the ability to hold as many as 16 items in their brains so they can connect the dots forward.Steve Jobs … Continue reading “Steve Jobs said: only looking backwards you can…”

From Pain Island to Pleasure Island… how to get unstuck

Get comfortable with not knowing the answerBecause you won’t… and maybe for a long time.But if you insist on knowing, then you won’t actually look, you won’t actually expand. You will keep on pondering, using only what you already ‘know’. And instead of questions that make you grow, you’ll be looking for answers, that confirm … Continue reading “From Pain Island to Pleasure Island… how to get unstuck”

Could be bad ‘wiring’ or some other mental/emotional hangup

Now that I am aware, awake to this whole issue of judgmentalness, I am starting to see how people are now judging…Judgment is wholly inside the black and white paradigm, Robert Hartman called it the ‘systemic judgment’ paradigm.In that paradigm something is either wrong or right, and there is no cure…Here is what, repeating from … Continue reading “Could be bad ‘wiring’ or some other mental/emotional hangup”

Become your own rainmaker… start using your brain

Your brain is an Unused ResourceIt is what most rainmakers do. Start using unused resources.Rainmaking is a business/industry distinction.There is a business that does so-so. A new CEO or leader comes in and restructures the company and their results go through the roof.But the same thing can be done on any level, including the level … Continue reading “Become your own rainmaker… start using your brain”

If the who doesn’t change, nothing can change

If the who doesn’t change, nothing can changeThis morning I opened an email from a dude who reads my emails, reads my articles, and says he resonates with what I say.In his latest email he said that we should talk. That we are the world’s two smartest people… so we should talk.