Will measuring your vibration prove that you live a butterfly life… not a caterpillar life?

First let me clarify the terminology: vibration is an invented logarithmic number... It indicates the level you are on the level of evolutionary scale in every area of life, including intellectually, spiritually, emotionally.

Butterfly life:

you can live life on the horizontal plane (caterpillar life) where everything feels personal, attacking, dangerous, offending, painful, dramatic, or the vertical plane, what we could call "heaven on earth" where you are not bothered by stuff... where you experience joy, enthusiasm, love, caring, etc... and get things done, so your life feels worth living.

One of the most frequent things people find my site with, is the question: what is the real difference between a butterfly and a caterpillar, and why you can't talk butterfly language with caterpillar people. Continue reading "Will measuring your vibration prove that you live a butterfly life… not a caterpillar life?"

Competence is rare… People who can get things done, well, on time… are rare

Competence is rare.

You know the people you deal with: they are just like of you... 99% of them 99% of the time are incompetent, late, shoddy work, nonexistent knowledge, sloppy delivery, tunnel vision, no distinctions.

You don't have to be competent in everything: be competent in what you do for a living, and in your relationships.

But, of course, it will require something you haven't been willing to do: get better. Learn deeper, more, more precisely. Practice, and bring integrity to it.

Deliberate practice, the rare phenomenon, is rare because people think: practicing is doing it the same way, over and over, expecting a different results.

One of the characters, a literary character, practices marshal arts, etc. every day, hours on end.

Lincoln, the president, said: I'll sharpen my axe for five hours so the one hour I spend with cutting the tree, the axe is "competent" to do the job.
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Are you part of the problem or part of the solution? Don’t be hasty answering…

we-have-met-the-enemyYesterday and especially today I had plenty of reasons to not want to face what there was to face: that we are the problem. 1 Especially if and when we think it's others.

I haven't done MY soul searching, but I will, I promise.

For now, just to document it, I'd like to address what I have seen.

One client paid me to remove her children's attachments.

I am still working on the second child, and this is what I have seen:

If you live inside a strong judgmental world of your own, where everyone, maybe including yourself, is wrong, then you are the Dark Side in your and your children's life.
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The two hemispheres of the brain and spirituality… what is your life experience?

The scenic route of getting some teaching, and making it your own nurturing, life affirming tree of life knowledge

I want to share a phenomenon, that, hopefully, will get clearer as I am sharing it... At the moment I can only see its visible aspect... I am almost certain it has an invisible aspect as well.

I read about three hours a day. Something that isn't connected to my work: fiction.

But recently I have taken on a 20-day challenge: listen to 20 episodes of a Hungarian psychologist, Dr. Peter Popper, in his Mesterkurzus (master course) series, an hour long each.

Excellent, fascinating, the dude is both a psychologist, an university professor, a clinician, AND a religion expert... whatever that means. Continue reading "The two hemispheres of the brain and spirituality… what is your life experience?"

What if it is unlikely that you can become the best version of you? Is it still worth going for it?

Something I just read made me get up from bed and come back to my computer. It is something I have almost forgotten... even though it was one of the most important things I have ever learned.

It is: instead of fighting the bad, grow the good.

Of course, some of the principles we live by become invisible... this is one of those.

It's not my invention. In fact the two wolves the Indian (Native American) tale speaks of, use exactly this principle: feed the good in you.

But the way it was worded in the book I just read was more profound. It says: Let me grow more of the good myself so the bad is less of me.

I didn't need to kill the iceman (in me). I didn't even need to fight him. I just needed to make more of myself, so that he would be less of me.

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The non-linear process of growth to a life well lived

I watched a Hungarian video yesterday on the kids who can see auras, and such... and first I felt upset, then confused, and then, by today, after I finished this article, I was clear: so what?

Every ability, every capability, ordinary or not, is only as useful as it will make you live a life worth living... but what is the usefulness of thousands of kids seeing auras... really! So what? That is their accomplishment?

Just like being an empath, seeing is a curse as much as a gift... the difference between the two is what you are going to do with it... None of the future is self-explanatory, or simple... you have a tool... but you still have to become "a human being" if you want to be happy and live well.
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How to get transformed into happy and fulfilled by simply reading my articles?

white lotusIf you look through my site, I have more than 4000 articles. All meaty, full of information, 99.99% Tree of Life... my personal knowledge. 1 All free and all teaching you to have a life worth living, a life you live powerfully.

And I am not afraid to give it all away... but why? Isn't valuable information... valuable?

Why am I not afraid that giving so much for free will mean no one will want to buy my paid information?

Ok, let's look at that.

What you read is falling into your mind and makes you feel smarter, or stupider, and smarter again.

  • Will you ever get what you want from reading? No.
  • Will you get the illusion that the more you know the more chances you have for success? Certainly. The illusion... not the reality.

But here is the issue: 99% chance that what you read (information) falls into your morass. Continue reading "How to get transformed into happy and fulfilled by simply reading my articles?"

Lack of purpose? lack of meaning? how to find? it is a lifesaver

One of the things all humans crave is consistency and stability. And, or course, if you live a life outside of a cage, outside of a managed care facility, those are hard to come by.

The only constant in reality is change... constant, maddening change. As soon as you get used to a new thing... the next new thing comes...

And humans don't adjust well to change, don't want change, don't like change.

Don't do well with change...

One of my students... they may have to move back to California...

I'm flailing with my emotions at the moment and being swept away by the ever changing circumstances of my daily life. I need an anchor. Your input would be great. Thank you.

and another student, not being able to get a job: Continue reading "Lack of purpose? lack of meaning? how to find? it is a lifesaver"

Reading… Connecting the dots… why can’t you?

Why is it that in spite of all the reading, all the studying, all the classes you take, you are not amounting to much, to as much as you feel you should have earned?

And no matter how many people suggest that reading a book a week is good for you... it may do nothing for you... I have seen that with my students... and while writing yesterday's article, the "April 1... joy-full life" article, I saw it again.

The way you do things, the way you read, learn, etc. doesn't create connections between the things you see, the things you learn, the things you read.

When we talk, maybe you can connect the dots, i.e. you are capable of integration: seeing that two seemingly disparate concepts connect, they are part of the same thing, or they are in fact the same thing.

But only when I point it out to you. Continue reading "Reading… Connecting the dots… why can’t you?"

What is the secret to joy? To a joy-full life?

How much joy do you have in your life?

I learned to ask this question from Dr. Popper... whose videos are my 20-day learning challenge.

Each video is about an hour long, I listen at 1.5x speed, because time is money. This speed still allows me to ponder and listen at the same time.

I am a fast listener: I don't go to my mind to compare, to negate, to argue. I listen and ponder.

I turn what I hear into gold. This is one of my principles in life: to put all power in all actions... to turn everything I do into gold. Or into Life... which is the same. Praiseworthy. Excellent. Valuable.

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