Most programs deal with only one side of the story: they either help you unstuck (but you'll get stuck again, because there is no path for you), or they help you move (but unless you first unstuck, you may move to unhappiness, unfulfillment, disappointment, instead of a nice place). But what I have never seen is someone who does both, and definitely no one seems to use the energy of what fuels you, your hidden fuel source, a craving, a yearning, to help you get unstuck and help you get moving. Continue reading "Why just getting unstuck is not enough?"
It'd been puzzling me... what did I do differently then?
Today I saw it.
I had a private call with a brand new client from Australia, and it was a video call on zoom (don't ask... first time zoom user myself!) so I could see her, and the changes the conversation was creating in her. Continue reading "Are you tired or are you weak? Revealing the root cause of inaccurate vocabulary…"
This is nothing new. This is the story of humanity: a richness of distinctions what to hate, what to fight, what to be against... and a poverty of colors, distinctions, actions when that fight succeeds.
No one knows. No one is even looking. No one gets that it is more important than air... Continue reading "Stairway to heaven or hot air balloon… both can work. You were thinking of a chair lift, weren’t you?"
It belies one of the fundamental needs of a human: being paid attention to.
You could say: every child is paid attention to, you work for them, you clean them, to feed them, you put them to bed, but being paid attention to is different. It is a need to be personally noticed, considered, and in some way validated... or something breaks inside.
It is hard to estimate how many children suffer from the lack of fulfillment of this need. Continue reading "You may know the price of everything and the value of nothing"
The latest call I listened to was a workshop style call for the upcoming course, back in 2013, Called the Pebble In Your Shoe.
I started to see something I could not even fathom six years ago: that we, the current humanity, deny having anything good on ourselves... expect the fake goodness we may pretend.
Mind you, not everybody. Continue reading "What is your best that you could be offering to the world?"
Sometimes I put the cart in front of the horse...
The insight (the horse) on the two selves that unless they become a team, no transformation can happen, came since I did those amazing Itch calls in 2014... so no wonder that the results are missing...
What am I talking about?
Your machine, your particular machine, was built based on an incident. Or better said: a decision you made by you (or accepted about yourself) as a child.
So far so good... but the process doesn't stop there.
There is a series of "therefores"... behaviors, that come from that early decision, and all of them are ugly. Fake. Pretentious. All try to fix what wasn't true to begin with. Continue reading "Why, in spite of a good process you are taught, you don’t live a transformed life?"
As usual, I had to distinguish the difference for myself... the hard way.
I almost didn't make it...
My strength deteriorated to the degree that I was having heart pain and exhaustion from just going from one end of the apartment to the other... So I started to mentally prepare myself to meet my maker, so to say.
The weird stuff was, that Source answered all my "diagnostic" questions with no... not my heart, not my lungs, not this and not that... yet it agreed that I was dying... Weird, right? Continue reading "Correcting vs fixing or how illness is my racket"
I will write this article in my usual style, that may be difficult for some... but easy for me.
I will write about my own experiences only... too many books and articles that talk about things that may or may not be true, useful, with one thing in common: what they write about is Tree of Knowledge... myth, truisms, but not the writer's personal experience.
With that said: I will not write about anything I haven't tested both on myself and on at least one client. Continue reading "Sleep Mechanics… solve long standing sleep issues"
We behave as if that were not true, if we yell loud enough, if we assert our claims enough, if we pretend that it's a mistake, etc.
I see it on clients, students all the time.
I did a Bach profile for a brand new person this morning. His "linchpin" Bach Energy is the Peacock. Peacock is one of these "I deserve to be beautiful because I eat poisonous berries for breakfast, lunch and dinner." It is the 40th Bach Energy® Dr. Edward Bach didn't find before he died. I did. I also found the Yew... #39. The toxic person. Desire to receive for the self alone...
If they listened to themselves they would say:... Are you crazy? Stop eating that stuff, it will kill you!
But no, they feel like a hero doing what they are doing. But they are dead, deadened heroes.
Continue reading "A is A. Aristotle was right. Ayn Rand was right. And we have been all wrong."
Both are vehicles for deep insight, but together they are unbeatable, because how you go about deciding what is your higher power that you are going to honor, as in the 12 step programs, will come completely consistent with your Bach Profile. Continue reading "The magic of synergy: Bach Profile and Mustard Seed… together"