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For You Everything Is The Same As Everything Else, Except That Not Always
The statement in the title used to be the koan 1 trainers used to scream, whisper, yell, raucously laugh saying… in the Forum, which eventually became the Landmark Education Forum. Continue reading “For You Everything Is The Same As Everything Else”
Sounds like an oxymoron, right?
After all unless you inherited your fortune or still live in the 4-star service environment of the womb… there is no such a thing… at least most of us don’t know about it.
I surely didn’t set out with that goal: creating effortless abundance.
Neither effortless nor abundance is part of my upbringing.
In fact I grew up to work hard (effort) and do not waste.
We were poor for a while, and my father never forgot that. But somehow, I became a hoarder.
I got beaten for it, but it didn’t stop me from doing it: hoarded the newspaper, the TV magazine, my mother’s manicure set… whatever I used, I wanted to own it, have instant unlimited access to it.
I lived in lack. It wasn’t real, but it was as real as if I were starving: it was my reality.
I wanted everything. I wanted to taste everything too… so I tasted and purged.
I was very protective of my time too: I would go to sleep around the time my parents left work, sleep through dinner and TV, and get up after they went to bed, to do my school work.
Sharing? No way.
I kept checks and balances and was very sensitive to be always around a balance: another scarcity tactic.
I didn’t have the goal to have abundance, and I didn’t have the goal to have an effortless life.
I remember 1987: just after the big stock market crash in October I lost my freelance job as an architect. I just bought a car, and spent all my savings on that. I was literally penniless.
I was let go between two sessions of a seminar called “More Money Workshop”
It taught that there is nothing missing unless you say so. 1 Hm, that was really new to me. I started to practice not saying so… I never considered changing my mind, I was really hellbent on surviving this unemployment phase without my mind going with it.
Continue reading “Have Effortless Abundance”
What If You Make A Mistake And Now Your Mind Knows That You Are A Screw-Up, A Knucklehead, A Failure, Or Dumb? How Do You Clear Your Rap-Sheet With Your Mind?
I am fully in this whole question: how do you enroll your mind that you can? That you are capable. That you can deal with it. That you can win at it?
And I just had an insight. Continue reading “When you make a mistake: Are you a Screw-Up?”
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Alex: Sophie, you said , ‘You can sell bankers, you can sell partners, but if you don’t sell yourself, your unconvinced, doubting mind will deliver the opposite of what you expect of it.’ Continue reading “From My Skype on context and building a ladder to”
From Steven Wright:
1. I’d kill for a Nobel Peace Prize.
2. Borrow money from pessimists – they don’t expect it back.
3. Half the people you know are below average.
4. 99% of lawyers give the rest a bad name.
Continue reading “Take a break, some hilarious funny lines for you”
Every self-improvement modality that I have ever tried considered the mind illogical.
The whole phenomenon of Global Negativity broadcasted in the form of feelings and direct knowing created for me a new area of inquiry.
If you haven’t read my last few articles, please do: everything will make much more sense, but I’ll try and make this article whole and at the same time not repetitive.
OK, here is the scoop: you are sent a feeling. The feeling is negative. Given your past history, your previous decisions and interpretations your mind has made, you’ll interpret that negative feeling as meaning something about you, and will react with an appropriate action or inaction, an attitude, etc.
M. felt sad. As her usual reaction, she lied down.
J. feels irritated, D. feels like a loser, N. feels defeated… each person reacts in predictable ways.
If they have the presence of mind, they muscletest if the feeling is theirs. If they do the muscletest deliberately, while momentarily connected to Source, the result of the muscletest will serve as evidence in the Court of Mind that the feeling is a fraud and there is nothing to do.
Continue reading “The Whole Idea That The Mind Is Logical Is New To Me”
Good news.
Ever since I uttered the magic words to the Creator: “Remove Traces”, my energized water in big bottles has been staying energized. It’s wonderful news. Now I don’t have to throw away hard tea, coffee, glass of water.
As I said in a previous article, the Tr. Energy that I asked Source to create a simile of, and allow me to use made me a target of several energy broadcasts from Tr.? I don’t know. But it marked me and the people I have used the energy on as target for frequent energy transmissions. How? I don’t understand, so don’t ask me to explain it to you. I only know it’s real, because it stopped. Continue reading “The Energized Water And The Attacks… Dark Side, Tr….”
I first encountered this phenomenon in Israel 30 years ago.
Women kept on saying “Ein li koah…” which translated means “I don’t have (enough) strength, I don’t have (enough) energy.”
I remember being disgusted, appalled at the time. I had never heard anyone say anything like that, not in Hungary, where working around the clock is the norm. Continue reading “The first signs of an infection by the Dark Side”
I have been talking about the Global Transmission of Negativity for days, but I only realized today that I forgot to tell you about a method that convinces your mind that the feeling isn’t yours.
Why is this important? Why is it necessary to tell the mind it is not your feeling?
Because if the mind believes that it is yours, then it does two things, that you don’t need:
1. It finds or fabricates a reason you feel that way… failure, sad, grief-stricken, angry, irritated, etc.
2. It makes you react to those feelings in your default way.
Proving to your mind that the feelings are not yours is much easier than changing your default reaction.
Your default reactions got you where you are today in life, and if you don’t like it, or don’t like anything about it, you need to consider alternative ways of being.
Continue reading “How Do You Prove To Your Mind That The Feelings Of Global Negativity Are Not Your Feelings?”
People complain of stress.
I am normally not experiencing stress, but the last few days I have been.
My response to them was tightening up, playing freecell, working more, or not working at all.
Today, at a connection call, stress came up and I asked: what causes stress? People said all kinds of things, circumstances, disease, etc…
I said: None of that. What causes stress is your resistance to life, to how it is.
Whatever you resist or ignore, like a little kid, will get your attention, whatever it takes. And it is going to cost you. Your freedom, your perspective, your peace of mind.
The best way I can illustrate this is with three pictures:
Picture one: you are attending (lovingly) the “issue” and you are able to do anything, while you never ignore the “issue”, lovingly whisper to it “I am not going anywhere…”
