Why can’t you make things happen? Why can’t you make your life work…

make-things-happenYou’ll hate me for this… but hate me as much as you want, this is why: Your integrity is shot.

Without integrity nothing works. Sounds very general, and definitely doesn’t seem to have anything to do with you: you are always on time, you brush your teeth twice a day, you keep your diet, you don’t cheat on your spouse… so what am I talking about?

I’ll explain it in a little bit, but let me just say something more:

Whenever ANYTHING doesn’t work about my life, about any of my relationship, about my health, about my work, about my money, I automatically go to my integrity.

I say: what is the integrity issue that I have that this is what I see… the area not working.

The out-of-integrity can be in many different ways, so I have a checklist: 1

    1. have I been keeping my word? to myself, or to anyone…
    2. is anything hidden? half-truths? pretenses? misleading others? hidden agendas? false statements?
    3. have I skimped on any of my work, my diet, my exercise, my hygiene?

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Want confidence, want your life to change? Here is a simple way to do it…

every speaking is committingAll speaking is committing. All speaking. Even if it is inside your head, and only you can hear it. Not even… especially those speakings you speak to yourself are committing.

How many of those speakings have you fulfilled upon? Next to none, I guess…

If you had a team that is committed to fulfilling every wish, ever commitment you have, they only need you to act… would that team look at you today and say that you are full of crap? Given that your word has no power? That you don’t mean half of what you say?

So, what has it cost you that you are like that?

No excuse will make it easier or lighter, or less costly.
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Integrity: The Key To A Life That Is Working. Peace Of Mind, Accomplishment, Satisfaction, And Happiness

When I measure your integrity, it is low. The average integrity of people on this planet is 3%…

Integrity is the relationship between your word and your actions, your beingness, your attitude… Full integrity is not available on the level of homo sapiens because of the way homo sapiens relates to words… while on the level of transcendence, I call human being, people create themselves, their whole life with their words, spoken or thought… like gods.

The terminology of integrity: integrity is either in or it is out… meaning you are either doing/being what/who you said you say you are going to do/be… or not.

Meaning: your level of integrity is different in every moment.

For most people integrity is equal to morality. Morality only exist in language… so it was invented by humans. Life didn’t agree your morality. Nature didn’t agree to abide by your morality. And probably neither did you.

Morality’s language is: It is right to do this and wrong to do that.

Keep your promises, cross your tees, dot your i’s.

A simpleton, mechanistic way of viewing something sacred, much like the statement: God is always there, noticing the fall of a sparrow and the hairs on your head…

Religion, any religion, is just one of the murderers of the human soul. The other one is state. Government. Most specifically the education system.

If you want to have any of the good things in the title, a life that is working, peace of mind, accomplishment, satisfaction and happiness… you need to declare independence from both religion and state.

Not revolution, just independence.

Revolution is reactive. Revolution comes from “there is something wrong” and the “revolution” is fixing it by replacing it with some other moral system that is rigid and oppresses the individual.

Declaration of independence is just stating the obvious, the natural, the Original Design.

You aren’t designed to live by someone else’s standards.

Each human has a built in compass, some people call it conscience, but I prefer the Hebrew version: in Hebrew conscience and compass have the same word, i.e. inner guidance.

Each human is designed to know what’s right for them and what isn’t. One size doesn’t fit all, doesn’t fit most, each human is special, unique, and has their own size, their own path.
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