Become all you can become with Sophie
He that won't be counselled, can't be helped
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Life is like a spiral staircase… Every problem, every issue will come back to be addressed on a hopefully higher level…
Like getting unstuck.
I once read a story about Gandhi. A woman came to him with his child. He asked Gandhi to tell the child that eating sugar is bad for him. Continue reading “My first ever webinar in 2009 on getting unstuck”
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If you know you are stuck… stuck in a rut, stuck in a behavior, in a cycle, in a predictable outcome, or maybe you are stuck on a plateau… What you may want to consider that you need energy to move away from that place.
In this article I’ll show you two methods to create the energy to move. Continue reading “Methods of getting unstuck… getting unstuck needs energy!”
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I have clients and students who have been in touch, buying stuff or courses since the beginning. That means about 10 years.
There is a certain kinship between us… they look out for me, they consider me, in addition to be their teacher, they consider me someone they want to be well, want to live long, want to succeed.
It is a very interesting experience for the teacher, because often the only thing that makes people listen is the authority the teacher has, by virtue of some achievement. So when they come to me with an idea to help me, I have to go through a process taming my ‘ego’ that wants to stay i the upper position. I ultimately manage to say: they are doing this because they love me… whether it is true or not, ego is willing to listen. Continue reading “Still stuck at the bottom after so many years?”
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Everything is a process… a road to hoe. The new methodology of transformation in this article is one step, without which all other steps are ineffective and temporary at best.
Just because you feel brilliant, you may not be brilliant.
Yesterday I felt like I am definitely getting smarter. Felt good. Then I asked Source: Am I really getting smarter? And the answer was ‘no’. Continue reading “Everything is a road to hoe, long, short, hard, easy”
What would you do if you could do anything?
It’s hard to answer, isn’t it?
After all seeing the whole big world with all its possibilities and opportunities is very hard when you live in a small box created by the mind, by the dominant beliefs, and your doom.
And it’s a big problem!
I asked a friend of mind what he would do if he were a millionaire. He said he would fly his private plane… That’s it. Could not see anything else!
I have been working on creating a communication course, but given that so many of you are stuck, and so many of you are having difficulty getting out of your minds: first things first:
Continue reading “Get unstuck with the detached capacity”
About 50% of mornings I wake up depressed, hopeless, and regretting that I woke up at all.
Why would that be? Because my view of my life is stuck in a particular vantage point, you could call negative.
And those mornings, with the exception of a few, I look around for ways to unstuck myself. Not because I believe I can… but because I learned to do that.
This morning I read the Monday Morning Memo… and was inspired to write my own based on the same general idea.
I had no idea that I can do it, I had no idea if it would take me anywhere: I had the flexibility to do it.
Did I know it was going to unstuck me? Not really. And it did…
Something similar I do every morning. Sometimes I have to do it over and over and over, sometimes I get swept away by the joy of expressing myself…
And rarely, nowadays, I indulge my hopelessness for a day or two.
Continue reading “The process of going from hopeless to energized and in action: limbering up, becoming flexible”
When money is tight, when I count every penny to make it to the next rent check, I always do something illogical, something that doesn’t make sense, but it works, and it works in spades.
I give a donation. Not big, just a little bit.
I have been doing this for about 10 years not, and every time the results are instantaneous, I get freed up, I breathe better, and I start to see opportunities where I was stuck just minutes earlier.
Continue reading “How a small donation of $3 got me unstuck”
During my walk today I had a conversation with a young man who said hello. He was going to soccer practice. He told me which school he went to… and that is how it began.
Some ten years ago I had a neighbor, a woman, who had had a life of turmoil. Divorce, death of a child, alcoholism, bad friends. She had a niece stay with her. She went to the same school as this young man I spoke with today. Continue reading “Do we really have free will? How would you know?”
If you don’t have a project, you don’t have a life. How to pick a project that will take you where you want to go?It is projects that give substance to life, give you a reason to get up in the morning. If you don’t have a project you only get up in the morning because you didn’t die the night before. Continue reading “If you don’t have a project, you don’t have a life”
There are two kinds of thinkings… or really maybe three.
Let’s define what we are talking about.
Continue reading “Penetrating the mysteries of existence”
