What is the reason you are pulled into everything, that you are trying to help everyone, that you are a do gooder? 1
When I ask people why they go out of their way to help people, they always have an answer. “I am good, I like people, I like to help.”
But the truth is deeper and uglier than that.
Selfless means just that. You have no self. You have no center. You are empty inside. You have no home to come home to.