Here is an example of a distinction not many would recognize…

distinction This distinction is called perpetration-withhold.

I have a new friend who lives walking distance from me. I can see her house and driveway from my office window, or could, but in the summer there is a stretch of dense woods between us, with wildlife…

She has a car and I don’t, so she has helped me out for quite a while. In fact I picked her to befriend because of the closeness of where we live, and the fact that she has a car.

I worked on her for months, and it worked. I had a friend.

For her I was someone who needed her and that was good enough for her. She helps a lot of people with transportation, and that gives some meaning to her life.

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