I would never have thought of asking this question prior to reading Margoczi's books, Feelings and Words a few years ago.
The truth value of those books is about 40%... more for reasons of omission than for reasons of false teaching.
I have learned in Landmark Education that regret, remorse, resentment, the "infamous" three R's are useless, and harmful.
I dare to differ.
- They may be useless if you are unwilling to take responsibility for what they are signaling.
- They may be useless or harmful if you make them your mood for life... pretending that you are a victim... you were never a victim, although you may have had abuse, misuse, or failures in your life.
What makes you a victim (also called an effect) is the unwillingness to take responsibility for what belongs to you... Continue reading "What are guiding feelings vs. emotions? Are you guided to look away? Run?"