There is a fundamental built-in error in tests that involve answering questions about ourselves.
I have found that personality tests that rely on your knowing yourself and to predict what you would do in certain situations, are profoundly flawed. 2
I say this after working with thousands of people, one-on-one, observing them, feeling them (I am an empath) and comparing who and how they are compared to what they say about themselves.
The gap is significant between the two.
You believe yourself different from who you are, and you fill out your questionnaire by your belief. But your actions will still be consistent with who you really are, how you really behave, your real attitude, your real self, and you'll be way off in your test results... 1
When you are trying to use your mind to be well, healthy, vital, vibrant, and smart
Your mind is good for mind stuff... but being well, being healthy, being vital, being vibrant, and even being smart are intrinsic values, and the mind cannot wrap itself around it: they are above mind.
Mind is concerned with what mind is concerned with, and it is never the whole; it's the pieces, it's the spot cleaning.
Mind thinks that if it put together the parts it can see are needed, the parts would create health, vitality, etc... but the mind, the mechanistic systemic organ is sorely mistaken. In the paradigm of the mind two plus two makes four... same level where you started: parts. No life.
A lot of why's are answered here... why you can't get well, why you are not happy, etc.
People are the highest value in the universe. Why? Because they are able to be all levels of values, the thinking mind (systemic), the extrinsic (create tools, cook food, provide pleasure), and the intrinsic.
You live, predominantly on one level, and value what is on that level most.
You have been choosing the shrink most of your life... and you ended up on my site with a meager number of capacities, hoping to get more out of life than you are getting.
You have been choosing, consistently to be a fat flightless turkey, in spite of your DNA that has flying as a capacity.
Yesterday I activated the capacity of Process for a handful of people... and it seems that this is a crucial capacity... Here are some interesting insights reading people's notes who just got the Process capacity activated
T from England writes. She now has 12 capacities, including the Process...
This is new......my internal state, "Is happy"... no big noise, just that. I am quite serious by nature, there is quite a slap stick humour behind it without exhibition its amusing.
Managed to read 5 pages of Book without distraction :
ie. making tea, toast or treat
seeing this site as a great tool to grow,
less inhibited.Want to say more but, feel i would just be dribbling on.....thats not less, inhibited? Laugh, laugh.