Egomind is the aspect of you that wants you to stay the same. It wants you to be safe, and it anchors you to how it is, because after all you are alive, you have survived.
Its shape is like a triangle sitting on its side... or a pyramid. Very stable. It takes energy and cooperation to move the egomind, so you can actually change, and start having a life that is going someplace, that is enjoyable, where you "drive" your own vehicle, called your life.