Should racket is where the person, the racket, claims that people, the world, society should behave in a certain way, as if there were a law, or an agreement ordering it.
Mothers should love their children. Parents should pay attention to their children.
There are no laws, no agreement to such. Your mother never promised you to love you, and you never promised to make them proud.
The should is an unfounded expectation designed to make you miserable.